Does this ever happen to you? Let me rephrase...would you ever say this to anyone?
Yesterday I met a person with whom I have only ever had phone and email contact. We shook hands and she stepped back and says, "You are not what I was expecting."
Huh, well, what were you expecting? I didn't bother to ask that question because if the response was something like, "I thought you'd be taller" or "I thought you were older" or "Man, your hair is big," I just would not be able to conduct myself in a professional manner after that point. It is important to note that all of these things have been said to me before.